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Aftershemarried, mymotherquitherjobandgaveherselftoherfamily.In1950, withthreechildren, .By1958, ourmodestwhitefarmhousewasfilledwithsixchildren, andMamawasdelighted.
-esteemandhelpedusreachourpotential.
Onefallday, ."Yourfatherhasaccomplishedsomuch." shesaidproudly."Hereallyissomebody."
Mymotherwantedeachofustobesomebodytoo."." shealwayssaid.
, , Ipaintedastackofwoodencrateswhiteandnailedthemtogethertomakeawobblybookcase."It' swonderful!" Mamaexclaimed."Justwhatweneed." Sheuseditformanyyears.
, Leocommentedthatthepicturesweren' ' thearofit."Theyaretheretoremindyouhowmuchyoucouldaccomplishevenaschildren." shesaid.
Fromtheverybeginning, , aftervisitingourgrandparentsontheSouthSide, , the41-storybuildingwouldbeChicago' stallest."Maybesomedayoneofyoucandesignabuildinglikethis." shesaid.
Herconfidenceinuswasinfectious.WhenmysisterCarlawas12, sheannouncedshewasgoingtobealawyer.
"Youcandothat." Mamasaid."Youcandoanythingyouputyourmindto."
, , , talkingtousabouthistory, politicsandcurrentevents, .
WhenIwasinthethirdgrade, , pointingoutlandmarksandrecountinglocalhistory.
Whenitcametimetothinkaboutcollege, therewasneveraquestionthatwe' ' sacrifice, westudiedhardtoearnscholarships, , Ilearnedthevalueofadollar."Workisablessing." Mamaalwaysremindedus.
Sheneveraskedforanythingforherself."Youdon' thavetobuymeabirthdaypresent." shesaidonetime."? Areyouhappy?"...
妈妈的脸上洋溢着骄傲的光芒。我知道,我们所取得的和将要取得的每一点成就,都是我们的父母所赐。
在我们还是小孩子的时候,妈妈便是我们的良师益友。直到我长大成人,才意识到她是多么不平凡。