Theformulaseemstosaythatwemustbelieveinourabilitytosucceedbeforewehaveexperiencedanysemblanceofsuccess,’swheretheknowledgepartoftheconfidenceformulacomesin,,“failure”.
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Suppose,forexample,,youaretoofaroffcourseforjustonecorrectiontogetyoubackontrack,,soyougiveup,parkyourcar,andneverreachyourdestination.
Infailureformulanumbertwoyoudecidethateventhoughyoumadeawrongturn,,knowingit’swrong,butrefusingtomakeanalterationbecauseyou’vealreadymadeachoice,howeverwrongitmaybe.
Bothscenariossoundprettyabsurdinthatcontext,buttheworldisfullofpeoplewhogiveupandquitbeforereachingtheirgoal,andwhostaywithbadchoiceslongaftertheyhavediscoveredtheyarebad.
Toensuresuccessyoumustbewillingtoalteryourcourseandkeepalteringit,andtotryagainandagain,asmanytimesasittakes,,andthatbringsusbacktotheconfidenceformula.
Thefaithtokeeptryingultimatelycomesfromknowingyourselfandyourabilities,-bustleoftoday’sworld,-awarenessandunderstandingcanwecometobelieveinourabilitytofindtherightsolutionandtoarriveatourgoals.
Peoplewhodon’,thereisnowaywecanachieveourgoalsbecausethereisnowaytoknowforsurewhatourgoalsare,orshouldbe.
Happy,centered,well-directedpeoplearepeople,,tosetnewgoals,-confidenceand,withsufficientself-confidence,successiscertain.